呂姐夫妻多年來攜手照顧重病父親,面對疾病與長期臥床從未退縮,從生活照護到安寧陪伴皆親力親為。他們以無怨無悔的守護,詮釋了最深刻動人的孝行精神。

 

For many years, Sister Lü and her husband devoted themselves to caring for her seriously ill father. Through illness, hospitalization, and end-of-life care, they never withdrew from responsibility. Their unwavering companionship and selfless dedication became a touching example of true filial piety and compassionate love.

 

攜手守護

多年來,呂姐與先生始終攜手陪伴照顧父親呂安老先生。面對高血壓、心臟疾病與帕金森氏症等長年病痛,他們從未退縮,而是用最大的耐心與愛心,守護父親的每一天。當111年醫師診斷呂爸爸腦部明顯退化後,父親逐漸失去行動能力,生活起居皆需依靠他人協助,夫妻二人便全心投入照護工作,讓父親在人生晚年仍能感受到家的溫暖與依靠。

 

Guarding Together

For many years, Sister Lü and her husband faithfully cared for her father, Mr. Lü An. Despite his long-term struggles with high blood pressure, heart disease, and Parkinson’s disease, they never backed away from the burden of caregiving. Instead, with patience and love, they protected and accompanied him through every stage of his illness. After doctors diagnosed severe brain degeneration in 2022, Mr. Lü gradually lost the ability to walk and became dependent on others for daily living. From that moment on, the couple devoted themselves wholeheartedly to his care, ensuring he could still feel warmth and dignity in his later years.

 
 

日夜陪伴

自112年起,呂爸爸病情加劇,生活完全無法自理,多次因尿毒性昏迷與營養不良急診住院,後期更長期臥床,需要鼻胃管與尿管維生。呂姐夫妻除了每日親自照顧飲食、清潔與翻身,更積極申請長照資源、醫療輔具與專業照護設備,並時時與醫師討論病況、安排住院與返家安置。從急診奔波到行政文件處理,大小事情皆親力親為,即使身心俱疲,也始終寸步不離守護父親。

 

Day-and-Night Companionship

Beginning in 2023, Mr. Lü’s condition worsened significantly. He became completely dependent on others for daily care and was repeatedly hospitalized due to uremic coma and malnutrition. In the later stages, he became bedridden and relied on feeding tubes and urinary catheters to survive. Beyond personally caring for his meals, hygiene, and physical needs each day, Sister Lü and her husband actively applied for long-term care services, medical equipment, and professional support. They maintained close communication with doctors, arranged hospital admissions and home care, and handled countless administrative responsibilities. Though exhausted physically and emotionally, they never left his side.

 
 

安寧相守

113年初,呂爸爸因聲帶退化導致呼吸困難,在醫師建議下轉為安寧療護。面對生命最後階段,呂姐夫妻沒有逃避,而是選擇更深的陪伴。他們透過誦經、祈福與道場行功,安撫父親情緒,盼望減輕病苦、守護尊嚴。從病榻前的守候,到最後一刻的握手陪伴,他們始終以愛相守,直到113年11月25日,呂爸爸安詳辭世。這份長年如一日的守護與深情,令人動容不已。

 

Companionship in Hospice Care

In early 2024, Mr. Lü developed severe breathing difficulties caused by vocal cord degeneration, and doctors recommended hospice care. Faced with the final stage of life, Sister Lü and her husband chose not fear, but deeper companionship. Through prayer, scripture recitation, and spiritual service at the temple, they comforted and supported him emotionally, hoping to ease his suffering and preserve his dignity. From sitting faithfully beside his bed to accompanying him through his final breath, they remained together with him until he peacefully passed away on November 25, 2024. Their enduring devotion and love deeply moved everyone around them.

 

聖凡並進

在盡心照顧父親的同時,儲兄與呂姐今年也一同進入崇德班,並積極參與道場運作。即使生活忙碌沉重,他們依然努力修辦、自我精進,將家庭中的孝心延伸為服務眾生的大愛。他們用生命實踐:真正的孝,不只是照顧,更是在苦難中依然選擇承擔、陪伴與付出,成為道場中令人敬佩的典範。

 

Advancing Spiritually and Worldly

While caring devotedly for her father, Brother Chu and Sister Lü also entered the Chongde Class this year and actively participated in temple activities. Despite the heavy demands of daily life, they continued cultivating themselves spiritually and serving others. They transformed the filial love shown within their family into compassionate service for all beings. Through their lives, they demonstrate that true filial piety is not merely about caregiving, but about choosing responsibility, companionship, and love even amid hardship. They have become an inspiring example within the Tao community.

 

台北推廣中心社會界三重區中德壇 儲德宇、呂美惠兩位夫妻的孝行故事
Taipei Promotion Center, Social Sector, Sanchong District, Zhongde TempleThe Filial Devotion Story of Chu De-Yu and Lü Mei-Hui

2026/07/29